Why does a man love a woman ?
Because she inspires him.
He doesn’t love her for sex, her social skills, cooking well, or for being a good mother. These qualities support his deepest longing.
He loves her because she can take him out of the mundane.
A man is attracted to a woman because she can take him to a different level of experience.
He wants her to put him in a state where conflict can be removed and bring him to relaxation. He loves her because she can take him into eternity and experience his infinite self.
This is the main basis for a long-term relationship.
Man wants companionship. But a reliable companion, he needs someone in his life whom he can deeply trust. He wants to talk to her, to tell her everything. The man must give her security, and she will give him inspiration. When a man really loves a woman, he will want her to develop and express his infinity, because then she can inspire him to realms beyond his dreams.